1 What could have been, or should have happened, but didn’t
2 The habit of making excuses rather than decisions
3 Relationship situations that shrink you
4 Old lies you’re still holding on to and living through
5 The idea that you have to be perfectly OK all the time
Some things are part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.
You can never change things by holding on to the existing reality. To get ahead in life, you have to leave some things behind and build a new model for living that makes the existing model obsolete.
You must make a firm decision that you’re going to make a change too. It won’t always happen naturally or automatically. Sometimes you will have to rise up against the wind and say, “I don’t care how hard this is! I don’t care how disappointed I am! I’m not going to let this get the best of me! I’m leaving this behind and moving forward with my life!”